A Confidence Guide from a Camera-Shy Photographer
In the fast-paced digital age, where social media dominates and visual storytelling reigns supreme, camera confidence has become a valuable asset for both personal and professional growth. As a self-professed camera-shy photographer, I've embarked on a transformative journey that has reshaped not only my approach to photography but also my outlook on self-expression and confidence.
For me as a photographer, being behind the camera is a comfortable space. I can control the frame, the lighting, and the narrative. I get to watch you come alive and I get to cheer you on and hype you up. However, stepping in front of the lens triggers awkwardness and unpleasant discomfort for me. Even as a photographer, I found myself constantly evading photographs, preferring the shadows cast by my own creation rather than stepping into the spotlight.
My journey towards camera confidence began with a pivotal realization – that vulnerability can be a source of strength, not weakness. I started by gradually exposing myself to the camera, experimenting with self-portraits and capturing candid moments with friends and family. Each click of the shutter became a step towards self-acceptance and a deeper understanding of the art of photography.
I can confidently say that it has been my beautiful, badass clients who have helped me face this camera-shyness head on.
Firstly, I have come to acknowledge, that pictures are always awkward and not at all romantic like the movies say they should be. The awkwardness is where the FUN is at! If we’re not goofing around and trying new things during a photoshoot, then we’re not having a good time. And my only goal as a photographer is to make sure my clients have a banger of a time.
So why do I still find myself camera shy? Because it’s foreign to me and probably is for you too.
So, here’s a short, not exhaustive list of things that helped me along the way. Hopefully they can help you too!
1. Practice Makes Perfect: Just like mastering any skill, practice is key. Start by taking selfies or setting up a tripod and experimenting with different poses and expressions in the comfort of your own space. Remember, YOU DON’T HAVE TO SHARE THESE WITH ANYONE. Just have fun with it and relax.
2. Focus on Positivity: Instead of fixating on perceived flaws, focus on highlighting your unique features and personality traits that make you who you are.
3. Understand Lighting and Angles: Learning about lighting and how it affects photography can boost your confidence by giving you more control over how you appear in photos. Diffuse, soft lighting makes everyone look their best. Opt for natural lighting coming through a window.
4. Celebrate Progress: Acknowledge and celebrate small victories along the way. Whether it's capturing a particularly flattering angle or successfully conveying an emotion through your expression, every step counts.
Bonus Tip: Don't Look in the Mirror! Seriously, just don't. The mirror can be a place where we tend to pick ourselves apart, so focus on the camera and embrace your natural beauty.
As my confidence in front of the camera grew, I noticed a ripple effect in other aspects of my life. I became more comfortable speaking up in meetings, networking at events, and even engaging more authentically on social media. Camera confidence transcended the realm of photography, becoming a catalyst for personal growth and empowerment.
To my fellow camera-shy ladies, remember that your perspective is valuable. You are allowed to take up space. Whether you're capturing moments behind the lens or bravely stepping in front of it, your unique outlook adds depth to the stories you tell through photography. Embrace the journey towards camera confidence with patience and self-compassion, and watch as it transforms not only your photographs but also your sense of self.
In the end, camera confidence is not just about mastering the technical aspects of photography; it's about embracing vulnerability, celebrating individuality, and finding empowerment in every click of the shutter. So, step into the frame, own your narrative, and let your camera tell the story of your journey towards self-assurance and creativity.
